EXPECTATIONS ARE NOT BAD AFTER ALL

I remember my friend telling me that attractions and expectations are bad, you can hurt yourself badly by simply expecting from your attractions…is it really what we attract is what we really expect? Like in science, attractions between bonds may be positive or negative. And in real life, positive or negative attraction, we predict something out of the certain attraction and that is what we call expectation.

Try to remember opening your friendster account with lots of strangers who want to invite you as a friend. Would you be happy if this hot girl\guy in the picture invites you in his\her account? Or this geeky person invites you to be his friend? Think… Easy, of course you’ll invite first the one who caught our attention, but if we realize, these people, whether hot or not, are all strangers.

That is what I mean, you put positive expectations to things that attract you, but on the other hand, negative expectation for the things that doesn’t attracts you.You draw higher expectations to those who attract you, but when your expectations fail, you get depress. But when you expect less on things that doesn’t attracts you, then it overdo your expectations, you become happy.

Now tell me, what is better between the two? You are free to choose things and people to be attracted to, that is your prerogative as humans. But you are also free to see the real character in every person you meet without basing it with its appearance and the end, you’ll see that expectations are not bad after all.